No worries - this is what threads are for! I feel a bit neglecting for having been out of the conversation for so long.
I think what Kat is trying to get at, Lily, is that there are different ways to reach out to people. One of my good friends told me that she didn't want to become a Christian for a long time because people kept telling her about it and bugging her - and it wasn't until she stayed with a family who just simply showed the love of Jesus to her that she began to see that there was something different about Christians.
Let me clarify - do you mean that you think all Christian music should say the name of Jesus or point specifically to Christ?
AslansLily wrote:
My mother told me once that she heard a Christian music producer say, "If a song doesn't mention Jesus or the cross or salvation" [something along those lines], "what good is it? What separates it from the world's music?"
This is a good point. However, a good number of Christian bands who have songs that aren't explicitly Christian (Relient K, Addison Road, etc) also have commitments to keep their songs pure and pointing (like Kat said) in a right direction, about positive subjects. This is one thing that
does separate them. On the opposite side, there are non-Christian artists who also sing about very positive things that could be perfectly alright by themselves - and this is where the line gets thinner and we as Christians have to be careful, always seeking God's will in the foggy areas where we aren't sure.
I don't think that just because a song doesn't mention Christ at all doesn't mean that it's bad or that you shouldn't listen to it. I've been encouraged by many non-Christian songs or even songs by Christian bands that don't exactly say Jesus name all the time.
A lot of it, I've discovered, also depends on the heart of the listener and your walk with Christ, as well as your personality.
I personally am in no way affected by the song
"Get Down" by Audio Adrenaline. But it mentions Christ and is talking about how He is continually lifting us up. This would be an example of preference/personality.
"Book of Days" by Enya is not explicitly Christian. But yet it challenged me to think about how I'm living my life and what impact it is going to have on my life in the future and on God's kingdom. This is an example of a song that's not explicitly Christian but is still encouraging.
AslansLily wrote:
My personal convictions say I want peace in music that should lift up the name of Jesus and bring God's presence, not drive Him away.
I agree. But I also believe that this
can be done through other types of music and not just those that are constantly saying His name. (Yes, Christian metal included) You can praise God without saying his name. In Psalms it says "the heavens declare the glory of God..."
You don't always need to say His name or even hint at it in order to point to Christ. God works in amazing ways through all KINDS of circumstances.
Back to the Christian metal - I do believe that if, regardless of how Christian it may be, if it causes you to stumble, it's not good. Goodness, if someone like Tenth Avenue North were to cause you to sin and to turn against God, then by all means - don't listen to it! A lot of it is very dependent on you and your walk with God - which, I believe, is why it's so hard to tell sometimes, and why it's so easy to fall into what others listen to. We so often want to fit in that we don't realize that a huge part of following Christ is doing what HE wants and not necessarily what everyone else is doing - even if what everyone else is doing is alright.
1 Cor. says "All things are lawful for me, but all things are not helpful" In other words, there are TONS of things that are okay to do and may not be harmful by themselves, but not all things will bring you to Christ, and that's really between you and God.
Real quickly on the subject of love songs - I don't think there's anything wrong with them. Even people like Taylor Swift. However. I do hold the strong belief that if the song is causing you to think about someone of the opposite gender more than God, more than you should, etc - then it's not good. But God wants husbands and wives to love each other (as Christ loved the church!) and love is a beautiful, beautiful thing. There's nothing wrong with celebrating it as long as you know where you stand and stand firm.
Sorry if I rambled.....

EDIT: In case it came across that way, I do
not mean that all music can be or is good. There are hundreds of songs out there that are explicitly
against the Lord or are deliberately going against what God has commanded - and those are not good. Separating ourselves, like you said Lily, from the things of this world is definitely good. But I think Jesus also said that we are to live in the world but not be of the world. (or something along those lines) We have to draw the line, but the line is in a different place for everyone. (and I think I've said that several times so I'll stop talking now.....

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